If the title of this article made you feel even a little bit weird, let’s clear up a few things about the sex toy and its benefits right away. They have been around for thousands of years in many different shapes, sizes, and types. Not only that, but at least one third of U.S. women are said to own a vibrator. Isn’t that crazy? But wait, there are even more reasons why a sex toy can and will make your sex life (and maybe your life in general) better if you decide to give one a try. In fact, we can give you solid reasons why you may want to use one of these devices, and some of them may surprise you. Next…
SEX TOY BENEFITS FOR WOMEN
They’re great for couples: This is the main idea, but it’s easy to sum it up. Guys, don’t worry if the toy is bigger than what you can give. And if you’re a couple, make sure you talk about using one before you do it. But if you talk about it, you and your partner will be happy with whatever you decide.
Help Break Up Your Routine: Let’s face it, being in a relationship can make many things, including sex, become boring. This is where a new sex toy can shake things up and change your usual routine.
Find Your Sexual Confidence: Using a toy to learn more about your sexuality will help you find your confidence in the bedroom, which is a very important thing. When you know what you want and how to get it, you’ll feel better about finding pleasure with whoever you’re with.
They help set the mood. This is related to the problem of “routine.” Some couples have trouble setting the mood for a number of reasons we don’t need to go into. But the right sex toy can help set the mood and keep it going if it’s presented well and used as foreplay. Vibrators were once called “personal massagers,” so why not use it to massage yourself before bed?
They can make things more fun. This is almost too obvious to say, but it needs to be said. Some women need a sex toy to reach their full level of pleasure. This is especially true for the 75% of women who need help to climax. The toy can help a lot with that.
They can make your relationship better. Like the first tip, this is because of everything else that can happen when two people use sex toys together. All of these changes will make your relationship better and make you and your partner feel more connected and, hopefully, physically and emotionally happy.
They can help you focus: This is good news for anyone who has trouble staying focused on pleasing their partner in bed. Using a toy can help you figure out exactly what to do to make your partner feel as good as possible, which is probably something he or she can also help you figure out.
They show how important foreplay is: when it’s time to go to the bedroom (or wherever you prefer), few things are as important as foreplay. Sure, quickies are fun sometimes, but so are longer sessions with multiple pleasurable moments. Without foreplay, you couldn’t reach those levels.
They can make you want something more. This is kind of related to the idea of having more confidence. When you know what you want and how to get it, it makes sense that your desire for it will grow.
They help you learn more about yourself. Just like a toy can help you get out of a rut, it can also help you learn more about yourself. This is true whether you’re in a relationship or not. And if you are, that’s great, because both of you will benefit from trying something new! Alone? What then? You’ll gain the confidence I mentioned above, and you’ll also know what you want better.
Is it normal for you to use sex toys made for women?
Now, a lot more people know that sex toys are not meant to replace anyone. They are made to make you feel better and help you have more orgasms. And that’s great, because even though the stigma around these toys may be going away, women and men still don’t have the same amount of orgasms. That’s why it’s so important for women to have sex toys. Using sex toys is a normal and healthy thing to do, so you shouldn’t feel bad about it. Masturbation and orgasm are so good for women in so many ways. Sex toys are all about helping us get where we want to go, whether it’s lowering our stress, easing our menstrual cramps, or making us happier.
Types of sex toys for women
If you like to have a certain part of your body stimulated, there will be a sex toy to do that. It can be hard to choose your first sex toy because there are so many different kinds, but it all depends on what part of the body you want to target. And it doesn’t just happen in the vagina and clitoris. Even though these are the two most common places for women to use sex toys, there are many other things you can try. Here is a quick guide to some of the best female sex toys and how they can be used to give you different kinds of pleasure.
Dildo
A dildo is one of the most popular sex toys for women, in part because it can be used in so many different ways. Dildos are toys that don’t shake and are used for penetration and massaging the inside of the body. They can be made to look like an actual penis, or they can be made in a way that has nothing to do with an actual penis.
There are many different shapes and sizes of Dildos. You can get a big dildo, a small dildo, a dildo made of metal or glass, a dildo with a texture, or even a curved dildo to hit the g-spot directly. Many women like to use dildos to penetrate the genital area and stimulate the g-spot, but you can also get an anal dildo to penetrate the booty and stimulate the nerve endings there.
Vibrator
You may have heard that a vibrator of some kind is a must-have for any bedroom. Well, that’s because these sex toys are made to help you get an orgasm no matter what part of your body you use them on. Any sex toy that vibrates to stimulate erogenous zones of the body is called a “vibrator.”
Which vibrator is best really depends on which parts of your body you want to be stimulated. There are styles that massage the vagina and g-spot from the inside and styles that massage the clitoris from the outside. The rabbit vibrator is another option if you want to be stimulated from the outside and inside at the same time. This is the best of both worlds because it has a vibrating vaginal shaft and external ears that vibrate against the clitoris.
Clitoral massager
A clitoral massager is one of the best female sex toys for getting women to have an orgasm. 75% of women need clitoral stimulation to get an orgasm, and these clit stimulation toys are made to do just that. There are a lot of different types of clitoral vibes, from big, powerful wand vibrators to much smaller bullet vibes. These bullets are small enough that you can use them by yourself or with a partner during sex.
More and more toys are coming out that mimic oral sex by using suction and pulsing waves around the clitoris instead of just vibration to make the user orgasm. There are a lot of clitoral toys to choose from, and the best one depends on what you like and how you want to use it.
Butt plug
Even so, female sex toys aren’t just for the vulva and the vagina. In the past few years, butt plugs have become a lot more popular as sex toys have become more mainstream. Butt plugs come in different sizes and shapes and are meant to make the anus feel full. When you wear a butt plug while masturbating or playing with a partner, your sphincter muscles tighten around the plug, giving your body even more sensation.
Many people also use butt plugs to get their bodies ready for anal sex. They are used to loosen and stretch the muscles, making it easier and more comfortable to get a penis or a bigger toy in. You can also look for a vibrating butt plug to give your booty even more stimulation or a tail butt plug to act like an animal or just look really cute.
Anal bead
If you want to try out anal play but a butt plug seems too scary, you could start with a set of anal beads instead. Anal beads are a chain of spheres that start out small and get bigger as they go along. The fact that you only have to put the beads in as far as you feel comfortable with means that they are great for people who are just starting out.
This is because the nerve endings at the opening of the anus are stimulated by the anal beads. This area has a lot more nerve endings than the internal canal. The most pleasurable part is putting the beads in and taking them out. This is another toy that can be played with alone or with another person. Try slowly taking the beads off before or during your orgasm. This can make your orgasm feel a lot stronger.
Nipple clamps
The nipple is one of the erogenous parts of the body that people who use sex toys tend to forget about. This is because most people think of nipple clamps as painful rather than fun. And while this is sometimes true, it all depends on what kind of clamp you are using. Nipple clamps work by squeezing the nipples and cutting off the flow of blood to the area. If you pull on them while they are on, they can hurt, which some people will love, but their main purpose is what happens when the clamps are taken off.
Once it’s out of the body, the blood can go back to the nipple, which sends a rush of feelings and endorphins to the area. After the growth is gone, the nipple will be more sensitive to being touched, licked, or pinched. If you’ve never used a nipple clamp before, look for one that can be adjusted so you can find the right amount of pressure. Alligator clamps, butterfly clamps, and tweezer clamps are all adjustable and good for beginners.
Handcuffs
Most female sex toys can also be used with a partner, but there are also toys made just for this. Handcuffs are a great way to try out sex toys and bondage play for the first time. Handcuffs are restraint toys that can be used to connect two wrists together or one wrist to something else, like a bedpost or a chair, to stop the wearer from moving or touching. The point of this kind of toy is to stop the person from being able to touch or move and to make the rest of their body more sensitive. It is also a great way to ease into power play and try out different roles in a relationship, such as the dominant and submissive ones.
Other women’s sex toys
These are just a few of the best female sex toys, but there are many more to choose from. You could also try kegel balls or ben wa balls, which are also popular and good for your pelvic floor health. You could also try a finger vibe or vibrating panty. These last two are especially fun for a first-time sex toy when you are playing with someone else.
What are the best first-time sex toys?
If you know what to look for, it’s easy to find the best sex toys for first-timers. Start with something small, like a toy for an activity you know you enjoy. Even if a toy is too small, you can still use it. If a toy is too big, though, you might not be able to use it well or at all. And make sure that no matter what kind of sex toy you start with, you always buy high-quality ones. This doesn’t mean you have to buy the most expensive toy. Check out what other people have said about the toy and make sure it is safe for the body and will last more than a couple of times.
