A Step-by-Step Guide to Performing the Ideal Blowjob
How to Proceed Blow Job
Making out is the best way to make a move, after all.
You can prepare them by kissing and caressing their other erogenous zones, such their ears and neck.
Stand in your place
There is no need to experiment with complicated sex positions if you and your partner are already at ease with the basics. They can kneel in front of you as you kiss their back, or they can stand or sit as you float your lips over them.
If you can make eye contact from where you are standing, that’s a plus. Eye contact is extremely attractive, communicates self-assurance (also extremely attractive), and deepens the level of intimacy between two people.
Getting undressed is optional.
Clothing is not required unless you are in a public restroom or similar location. That depends on how you feel about things.
Take it out without disturbing the rest of their attire, or unbutton their underpants to access all their privates.
If rubbing across each other’s flesh makes things sizzling, then go all the way.
Methods for Manipulating the Tongue
Really, anything goes in this space. Lift and lower your tongue to ascend and descend their duct.
The very end of your tongue is ideally suited for zeroing in on minute details and sensitive places. The frenulum can be flicked and swivelled with the tip before being gently brought into the mouth.
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Use these strategies to improve your mental game whether this is your first trip down or one hundred.
Have a Positive Attitude
There is nothing more satisfying for a man than knowing that his partner actually enjoys his dick. This zeal is what produces an extraordinary blow job.
One of the most effective methods to demonstrate your passion is to initiate it. For instance, a surprise blowout when he enters through the door or awakens in the morning.
The next time you’re watching Netflix, tell him, “I’d rather have your dick in my mouth right now.”
When dining out, murmur, “Can we please leave this restaurant? I need to suck your scrotum immediately.”
Maintain your enthusiasm while providing him direction.
Groan loudly and with vigour. Make eye contact and smile. Remove his dick from your mouth and massage it on your cheek or genitalia. Continue to tell him how hot it makes you feel to be pleasing him.
The Wetter the Better
The wettest blow jobs, as the old adage goes, are the best blow jobs. It needs to be wet in order to feel wonderful, just like when he’s eating your pussy and driving you crazy with his mouth. Spit a lot, and then some more.
To make it more palatable, moisten it well with your mouth. Spit dripping down his cock is really ok. That is the point, after all!
The most sensitive areas of a man’s dick are the head and frenulum (the V-shaped area on the underside of his penis where the head meets the shaft). You can think of it as the male clitoris; feel free to use your mouth and lips on it.
Act like you worship his s*x and suck his cock. Make a pout, let it slide in, and then swish your tongue around your head.
The French-kissing, whirling method is generally effective. Cock his head over and give him a French kiss like you’re in a sexytimes scene… Suck on it, kiss it, encircle it with your tongue, and anything else your tongue can think of to do.
Don’t just rely on your lips to get your point across; use your hands too
Light touch is pleasant on the head, frenulum, and foreskin, but a harder pressure is required for the shaft.
Bring your lips down to meet his hand while firmly wrapping your hand around the base of his penis and making the OK sign with your thumb and forefinger. Moving your lips and fist together up and down his penis is recommended. This is the classic motion that is certain to make a man cum fast.
Instead of just going up and down, twist your wrist as you glide up his shaft. If you can also tilt your head, that’s a plus.
Eye Contact
The blowjob will feel much better when you take his dick in your mouth and stare into his eyes like you want to rape and fuck his brains out.
Don’t stare him down for too long unless you really appreciate giving him the head. He will find out if you don’t.
For how long could one expect a decent blow job to take effect? Some blowjobs last only a few minutes and are necessary to get to the sex part, while others can go on for half an hour or more. If you can make him cum, that’s the ultimate blowjob.
Don’t Forget About the Balls
Take his scrotum in its entirety and hold it in your hand. Because testicles are delicate, you’ll need to find a nice balance between being too rough and not gripping the testicles firmly enough (too light of a grasp will feel ticklish). While you continue sucking his dick, roll his balls around in your hand and play with them. Give the entire sack a few gentle pulls all the way through.
Pinch the skin between the two balls with your thumb and forefinger, and then slide your fingers from the base of his scrotum all the way up to the tips of his testicles. Do this very carefully. Then you could try concentrating with your tongue on his balls. Lick all over his testicles with a broad, flat tongue while maintaining constant pressure with your fingers on his penis. You should give each ball one minute of your attention while holding it in your mouth. Licking in between the balls and moving your tongue all the way from the back of his scrotum to the front is another option you have.
The Finish
It is recommended that you let him know early on in the blow job where you would like him to have his orgasm. Everyone has the freedom to choose for themselves what they believe to be appropriate for their own sexual life.
When you are ready to end the session, you should attempt to imitate the fucking motion with your lips and hand. You should open your mouth a little wider (so that your teeth won’t get engaged), and then you should allow his cock slide in and out of your mouth between your lips. While rubbing his head and frenulum with your tongue, maintain a firm grasp on his cock with your hands so that you may milk it.
It is in your best interest to proceed with business as usual whenever he is cumming. Jack it really hard, pump it with your fist, and aim the cock wherever you want the cum – tits, face, or tummy, guys like cumming on those places – but typically nothing as much as in your mouth. If you do not want him to cum in your mouth, then jack it really hard, pump it with your fist, and aim the cock wherever you want the cum.
If you’re very uncomfortable with swallowing, keep a box of tissues nearby so that you can spit into them when he’s done talking. This will keep your spittle from being seen. If he enjoys becoming dirty, you might make a show of it by allowing his semen to fall out of your mouth and onto his dick while you are having sexual relations with him.