How to Use a Fleshlight: Top Tips for Getting the Most Out of Your Toy
A fleshlight – if you’re new to the concept – is an incredibly advanced, lifelike sex toy for masturbation. It simulates a vaginal, anal or oral opening with shape, texture and coloring that looks – and feels – almost like the real thing. You can buy fleshlights in India mostly online. Designs vary, and different models provide different sensations, whether designed to emulate a specific intimate body part or to test your stamina and control. One thing is certain: Your orgasms will never be the same!
You can see why it might be a popular option for both first-time toy purchasers and seasoned solo players alike! At Lovetreats, fleshlights are some of our bestselling sex toys in India when it comes to toys for men. Ready to experience a mind-blowing orgasm? Here’s everything you need to know about playing with a fleshlight.
Before you buy: Read the reviews to get the real lowdown
It makes sense that you’re eager to choose your fleshlight, get it shipped and get some solo time on as quickly as possible, but! Gentlemen, your friends are here for you and you would be wise to take advantage of that. Before making a purchase, make sure you read some reviews for different fleshlight models, and not just the marketing descriptions. Reviews are written by real men – just like you – and they will give you a better idea of what to expect, what features they appreciate, along with important tricks or tips for enjoying your new toy to the fullest. Trust us, reviews go a long way and are worth the time to read.
Experiment with different sensations
A few preparation items will take your fleshlight experience to the next level. Firstly, while this kind of toy is designed to mimic real intimate body parts, it can’t compensate for the warmth and wetness by itself. The secret? Warm up your fleshlight before you use it for an even more realistic experience. The easiest way to do this is to place your toy into a sink or bowl of warm water for a few minutes before use. Also, the fleshlight material requires a water-based lube, but the brand and thickness of it is up to you. Using a warming lubricant can add a whole new level of pleasure to the experience of using a fleshlight. The warming sensation will make it feel a lot more realistic. On the other hand, putting the sleeve in the fridge before using the fleshlight, gives a cooling sensation that many men find extremely pleasurable. Experiment with different sensations to find out what works for you! A warmed or cooled sleeve, a few drops of lube and you’re on your way to a sexual experience of new heights.
Use your fleshlight for stamina training
Using a fleshlight can allow you to learn to recognise when you are going to orgasm and more than that, how to delay the process. As you are using your fleshlight, you will feel yourself getting closer to the point of no return (the point at which you cannot stop yourself from climaxing). As you pass the point of no return, you will orgasm and ejaculate. By focusing on your sensations, you can start to learn when that point of no return is coming closer. As you feel it approaching, stop and then start to thrust again gently. You can repeat this several times until you finally decide to “let go” and allow yourself to orgasm. Repeat this training regularly and you’ll soon find that you are able to control when you climax and can last much longer. Another bonus is that you may find your orgasms become stronger and more intense. With more build up before they happen, explosive climaxes could well be the outcome.
Find the setup that works for you
For the most part, fleshlights are designed to be handheld. You enter the sleeve and use the toy to stroke your penis much the way you would with standalone masturbation. Seems easy, right? This method also lets you control the speed and intensity as you stroke, which is ideal if you’re somewhat new to fleshlights. However, a sleeve usually spans about 2 – 4 inches in width, so when you’re still getting used to it, it can seem tiring or uncomfortable to hold for longer periods of time. If this is the case, you can always purchase a designated mount, which are designed to hold your fleshlight in place while you use it. Of course, you can always find your own system of mounting using items around the home or in the bedroom. You can also put the toy between mattress and bed frame in order to fix it in one place. Either way, it can be a nice alternative for when you just want a little hands-free action.
Ask your partner to get involved
Having your partner get you hard and use your favourite sex toy on you can take foreplay to the next level. So go ahead and ask your partner if they would be up for incorporating your fleshlight into your sex life. Now ladies, we need to stop here for a moment and make sure you’re comfortable with this! No, your man doesn’t like sex with you any less because he’s using a sex toy for self pleasure. No, this isn’t about playing down your skills in the bedroom. Your partner doesn’t feel that way about your vibrator, so remember to extend the same favour! Plus, watching him get off can be super hot.
Taking care of your fleshlight will make it last longer
Like any valuable item you own, taking good care of your fleshlight makes it more enjoyable to use and likely to last longer. Here’s how: Clean the inside sleeve with warm water and mild antibacterial soap after every use. You can also buy specialized toy cleaner for your fleshlight, which is designed for this very purpose. Let your fleshlight air dry completely (this helps deter bacteria) and then store in its case. Taking proper care of your fleshlight will make it more comfortable to use and ensure it lasts for as many uses as possible.
Once you’ve chosen a fleshlight and done some prep work, all you need is a little bit of imagination and you’ll be on your way to an unforgettable masturbation experience.